Note that the marriage rate has declined only a little among the upper-class and educated, but declined a lot among poorer whites and especially minorities. While there are probably many explanations, we should remember that a committed relationship, while it does not require legal marriage, is generally stabilized by the legal status. Also remember the health and financial security benefits of a good marriage.
There is much discussion of the role of the state in reducing the incentives to marry by providing support and services to unmarried mothers, and in enforcement of family law by penalizing men especially in divorce. Knowing that one wrong marriage will wreck his future, many young men with lower incomes and prospects will be much more cautious about committing, and knowing that legal marriage will reduce social benefits does not help.
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